So you’ve just split up with your girlfriend – her decision, obviously. And you think to yourself,”If I could just get in front of her right now and show her my emotions, show her how I feel… I could get her back. I know – I’ll cry in front of her! She’ll love that stuff! After all, she’s a woman! It may not – in fact it definitely won’t. Crying in the vicinity of your now EX girlfriend is only going to make her realise what a good decision it was to release you back into the wild. Showing your feelings will simply push her away instead of drawing her…